Family Soccer Time!

Spending Family Time at Club Med Bintan

Our initial plan was to go to Gold Coast. But due to my busy schedule, I hadn't the time to plan at all. So Club Med Bintan getaway was ideal. Everything was provided for and all I wanted to do was to chill out and spend time with Clem and the kids.

SETTLING VERITY
Club Med has made it easy for us. Extra room, baby cot, baby accessories such as steriliser, bottle warmer and toiletries.

For Verity's meals, I brought along a mini rice cooker and ingredients. Thankfully, their power socket was the same as Singapore's, so there was no problem using the rice cooker. I brought along rice, wolfberry, conpoy, dried silverfish, carrots and fresh fish slices. I bought the fresh slices in the morning before we departed, and packed them into 5 packs together with dry ice in a thermal cup. I packed them into smaller packs so it would be easier to take one and cook for each meal without having to thaw the whole lot. The cooler in the hotel room wasn't cold enough so we deposited them with the bar to keep in their freezer.

We would collect one pack before each meal to cook in our hotel room. Just to be sure, we used bottled mineral water to wash and cook.

Verity would have porridge every lunch and dinner. Other than that, she had milk and would be breastfed (so I tried not to drink cocktails and wines whenever I wanted to nurse her). She also snacked on bread, steamed rice and mash potatoes from our meals.

Sleep-wise, she settled for her cot the first night and during her naps (She was "upgraded" and slept with us for other nights). Other than that, she slept easily whenever she was tired, while we swam or watched night performances.

TAG TEAM
There were many sport activities at the Club but since we had the 2 kids, we couldn't participate in most of them. We could have signed Cavan up for Petit Club (for kids 2-3 years old) but we wanted family time. Maybe next time, he will go for Mini Club (for 4 years and above) should we go again.

Hence, Clem suggested we tag team. Great idea!

Since I woke up early, I went for morning swims while Clem minded the sleeping kids. In the afternoon, we took turns to mind the napping kids while Clem went for his golf game or I went suntanning. That way, we could still have time to do the things we wanted (although we would have preferred to do activities together).

CAVAN
Cavan also managed to do all the things he liked: playing at the pool, snacking, watching loads of cartoons at Cartoon Network whenever we wash up or prepared Verity's meals. Best of all, he had all the cookies and ice cream he wanted after meals.

The only regretful thing was that we might have introduced to him fear of the beach. There was a particular small pool by the beach, where sea water flowed to a fill covered by rocks. It was beautiful and we thought it could serve as a wading pool for kids. Cavan ventured in and he was sinking fast into the sand and water although the water was shallow. He was unnerved by it. But we overracted, panicked and pulled him out. Clem (carrying Verity) tried and he sank in too and had relative difficulty getting out. The sand was too soft. After this incident, Cavan refused to go to the beach although he loved playing with sand.

We didn't understand and thought he was throwing tantrums. It was only in Singapore that he revealed that he was afraid and we connected his fear to the sinking incident.

CLUB MED
We really couldn't ask for more! Great rooms, great food. There was food and drinks round the clock. The buffet spread was great though there were hits and misses. But generally good. We also drank wine and cocktails whenever we wanted.

The staff there, made up of different nationalities, were friendly. We were impressed how they doubled up as performers. We had performances during the day at the pool, at night at the theatrette and mass dances at night. These staff, including the General Manager, Sports Manager, Golf Manager and others, performed "circus acts" and dramas. They seemed to have loads of fun too!

There were also activities for families since it was family festival when we were there. Children together with parents participated in kite making and flying. And there was a parents vs children competition at one of the nightly programmes.

Generally, Club Med was packed with programmes and entertainment for anyone and everyone. Even the nights were filled with mass dances and pool parties. The atmosphere was fun and relaxing.

Will we go again? Certainly, yes!

Happy V-Day

This year, we decided to spend V-Day with Cavan. We wanted to devote one-to-one time with him. When Verity was around, he was big brother enough to give most of the attention to her without complaining. So for today's outing, no Verity. He was so happy and told his baby sis, "Bye Verity, we're going out! See you later!" with a smug face.

Even though he might not understand what is V-Day (and we didn't mention anything about it), he was sure in a loving mood today! Usually he was already sweet and dovey, but today's dosage was doubled! He kept telling us, "I love you, daddy and mummy!" and kept wanting to hold both our hands as we walked. Even when we were seated in the car or restaurant, he would put his arm around us and gave us a tight squeeze. We simply soaked in his saccharin sweetness.

Happy Valentine, our dear son! We love you too! Sooooo much!

Adventures in Taipei (Part III: 26 Dec 2007)

26 December 2007
Occasional rain (17-20 Deg C)

The weather seemed great in the morning so we planned to go to Shenkeng, the (smelly) tofu street. We needed to transfer train then transfer bus. I'm not exactly sure which bus but the travel guide was very helpful. Also, at every station, there was info on where the nearest places of interest were and how to get there. So after getting the bus info, we went to the bus stop.

After confirming with the bus driver, we hopped onto the bus. Cavan was asleep on the stroller so Clem lugged the whole stroller onto the bus. There was an electronic signboard on the bus indicating the location at every stop, so I kept a lookout to make sure we didn't miss our stop.

After about 10 min, the bus suddenly swerved into what looked like an abandoned garage. The bus driver told us to get down. I looked around the ulu place and it didn't look like what I expected. But we had to get down as this was the so-called bus terminal. I asked the driver where Shenkeng was and he randomly pointed at a direction.

So we got down and headed toward where he pointed. Clem asked me whether we were near. I seriously had no idea! Just walk, and ask for direction. But the place was so ulu, we didn't know whether there would be anyone to ask. Anyway, I was sure that we'd smell Shenkeng.

Soon it began to drizzle so we took shelter at a restaurant that appeared out of nowhere. After putting on the rain shield on the stroller (Cavan still blissfully asleep) and wrapping Verity up, we ventured out again in the rain.

In 5 mins' we began to see people, then tour buses, the we SMELT it! We found the place! Yippee! First on the agenda- lunch!

After a sumptous meal, we explored the street. There were so many titbit stalls in this small street! Rice cakes, malt candy with sesame, sesame rice balls, freshly made peanut and almond candy, preserved fruit and foods, tofu ice cream and smelly tofu! We were overwhelmed by the selection!

The smelly tofu was a must-try. It smelt bad but tasted good! The Taiwanese smelly tofu was smeared with some salty-sweet sauce and came with preserved veg. They were absolutely delicious! I had one everyday during my previous trip.

For the night, we decided to go to Raohe Night Market which was around 10 min walk from our hotel.

Raohe Night Market was teeming with different kinds of xiao chi. Pepper buns (which were meat buns with gyoza skin), chou chou guo (smelly pot- something like smelly tofu steamboat), mutton soup, Taiwanese-style roti prata. This place also had shops selling cheap clothes, shoes, cute stationery etc. I bought lots of socks here for the kids and a scarf.

Got to watch the time. Alas, too late. Verity was fidgeting before it became a full-blown cry. To take the short cut back, we could cut through the train station. The train attendant at the entrance heard her and asked if I wanted to breastfeed her. They had nursing rooms available at the station. I politely refused since we were so near our hotel. But to get to the other side, we needed to buy a ticket. The train attendant looked so apologetic. The pass-through ticket was so cheap (I think 60 cents) so we got them and went through a special gate cos we had a screaming baby.

Same routine. Rushed into the hotel. Receptionist passed us the key at the lift. Got into the hotel room. Fed. Finished. Happy. Took photo.

27 December 2007
Fair weather (15 Deg C)

Our target today was Ximending, the hip and young shopping district. Plenty of funky shops here. Yeah, and loud music too. Managed to buy shoes and a gold cardholder for myself. Clem got himself a bag for his laptop.

Couldn't help but indulge in Mr Donut. Their donuts was fantastic! Not too sweet and the doughnut had a nice chewy texture. So yummy. We got assorted minis and Cavan was fighting with me over the strawberry flavoured one. Nowadays, he was into pink and strawberry flavoured stuff. Hmph! Whatever happened to children-love-chocolate norm?

That afternoon, something happened that almost made me faint. Today being our last 2nd day, we thought we'd exchange another $100-$200 worth of NT$. We went to the bank. They did not accept S$ (surprisingly given there were many Singaporean tourists) so we used the ATM. Only certain ATM could dish out S$ so we had to go further ahead to another bank's ATM.

After Clem withdrew the money, he paused for awhile and told me blankly that he suspected he withdrew too much. How much? Well, S$1000 worth. WHAT??!! I couldn't believe my ears. We would only be here for another day and you drew out that much? Why? You are going to buy a house here issit?

Seemed that he miscalculated... Ok... suddenly I felt liberated to spend. Let's go shopping! And we went across to Far Eastern Department Store.

I deposited Clem and the kids at the basement, bought him a coffee and steamed carrot cake, and went off in my shopping spree.

The imported stuff here were cheaper. Le SportSac, Nine West... I got a Nine West bag and a cardholder. At 30% some more! Almost tempted to buy boots and clothes but restrained myself.

Went back to collect Clem and kids for dinner. Went to Bearded Zhang (Hu2xu1 Zhang1 near Houshnpi MRT) for dinner. Really popular place. We were initially not very hungry so was modest in our order. But the food was good so we ordered more. Cavan also enjoyed every morsel of his rice.

Went back to Wufenpu for more shopping. Got cheap wollen overcoat at S$50+. What a steal. Back home, they cost S$200+!

Also, managed to satisfy Clem's longing- mango ice. Said that if he didn't have this, wouldn't feel like he'd been to Taiwan. A S$2 bowl was 3 times bigger than the ice kacang back home. Guess the happiest person was Cavan who was given permission to indulge in these cold treats almost everyday.

28 December 2007
Fair weather (19 Deg C)

We only had till 3pm to go around before the airport transfer. Went to Taipei 101. Got down at City Hall station where a free shuttle service was provided. We figured we'd walk there instead. The brisk walk took us 15 min.

We had lunch there, as Taipei 101 had the biggest foodcourt. The selection was overwhelming and the portion was humongous.

We only had little time and headed back to the hotel. Soon it was time to say good bye to Taipei. It was really a friendly place with very polite people (I wonder why the politicians seemed less civilised, always see them breaking out in fights during parliament).

Taipei was also super baby-friendly, with nursing rooms even at MRT stations. And the blue seats on the MRT- they were reserved for diabled, elderly, preggies and those with children. These seats were almost always empty. Even if they were occupied, the passenger would offer me the seat the instant I entered the train. So unlike the culture in Singapore!

While waiting at the airport, dear Cavan was doing the very touristy thing. He explored all the signboards and decor and asked excitedly, "Mummy, come and take picture for me!" before posing next to whatever.

A seasoned travellor indeed! Till our next trip.

Adventures in Taipei (Part II: 25 Dec 2007)

25 December 2007
Fair weather (17 Deg C)

The weather was great, so we planned to go to Danshui, a sea-side town. The Metro ride took around 30min and we were there.

Wanted an iconic photo but Starbucks snatched all the attention. Talk about globalisation!

This little town is full of small shops and pasar malam stalls by the sea side. There is also the "Lovers' Bridge" which we didn't walk through. Visitors can take the ferry to the other side, the Fishermen Wharf, where Meteor Garden was filmed. For us, we just hung out at Jhong Jheng St and ate all sorts of munchies.

One of the few recommended places are Chez Jean, where they sell traditional wedding cakes. You can also visit the Fishball Museum, which isn't exactly a museum. It's a shop selling fish crackers.

We stopped by at a small eatery to lunch as it was time to feed Verity. Had fried bee hoon, gong wan soup, a plate of cold cuts and an ah ge. An ah ge is something like a huge soon kueh but its fillings consisted of fried tang hoon, bits of mushrooms and dried prawns. A pinkish sauce is usually poured over it. Ours had tau pok skin instead of the soon kueh skin.

What I couldn't resist having throughout the Taipei trip was milk tea. I must have at least 1 or 2 cups each day. Cold ones, hot ones, with pearls, Jamu milk tea etc. Taiwanese are health conscious. You have the option of less sweet and there are different sweetness levels.

Verity ready to rock the town!

Treated Cavan to tall ice cream. It was like yogurt ice cream but lighter and less sweet. He was so thrilled! He chose the strawerry and melon flavour and enjoyed it by the seaside. Clem and I had to "fight" with him to get a lick.

Clem and I had our treats too, albeit less healthy. We chomped on BBQ giant squid, fried mushrooms of sorts, crackers, Taiwan sausages with fish roe etc.

Get fat!

At 6+, we headed for Shih Lin Night Market, yes a place for more xiao chi. What a mistake! Given that it was Christmas night, the streets thronged with people. Illegal clothes hawkers also lined the streets with their wares and it was a nightmare trying to push the stroller through the crowd.

Home-made ice cream on chopped peanuts and peanut candy shavings wrapped in popiah skin. A real treat!

We didn't join the queue for the famous Giant Chicken Cutlet. Had it almost every night cos there was an outlet near our hotel who sold this. Would buy one whenever we headed back. Great snack!

We made our way back as it was near Verity's feeding time (around 9+). Verity was bawling and screaming by the time we reached our hotel lobby. The hotel staff were great. They observed that Verity would be crying everytime we returned. For the 2nd night, they had our room key ready so Clem dashed out from the lift, grabbed the key and dashed back into the lift. Didn't even have to tell them our room no.

Tonight, even better. The lift door opened and lo and behold! There stood the hotel staff at the lift handing us our key. We didn't even have to step out! She smiled and said, "I hear her crying already." That's what I call service!

We were having a mini Christmas celebration. Although I was supposed to feed Verity, we wanted to take a pic with the cake as Cavan was close to digging his fingers into the cake and licking the cream off and eating all that adorned the cake. Sorry, gal! Anyway, it was a cute family pic.

Bought Cavan a Christmas present. He loved Thomas the Train so this would add to his collection. Cavan was so excited to see it but the anticipation turned out differently... well, that's another story. (Clem always has a great laugh whenever he sees this Thomas the Train)

Verity happy again after feed

Enjoyed the rest of the night in a simple and warm fashion, just enjoying one another and thankful for all that we have. While the kids slept, we ate our cake, drank our coffee, ate the Giant Chicken Cutlet and cup noodles, and watching the TV prog.

Christmas Day concluded peacefully, with the whole family huddled in a bed. What warmth!

Adventures in Taipei (Part I: 23 & 24 Dec 2007)

Clem and I loved free and easy trips. We were able to explore freely, take public transport, eat at small eateries and not rush through our activities. Especially more this time, cos with 2 kids, we preferred more flexibility.

When hearing that it was going to be cold and rainy in Taipei, my Assistant CEO's PA Vivian bought Verity a woolly pink shroud with matching hat, a purple sweater and a romper (she did the same when Cavan went to Korea in 2006). Aunt Judy also bought Verity a sweater.

Verity was quite cranky in the days leading up to the trip. Suspected teething. We found that she would forget to cry in the midst of her crankiness or hunger when there was a program on TV. So I borrowed Tze Wei's DVD player just in case she got cranky during the 4-hour flight (Jetstar does not have in-flight entertainment).

23 December 2007

Fair weather (17 deg C)

Thankfully, the kids were well behaved. Verity fell asleep before we took off. She woke up later to play a while before I nursed her for the remaining 2.5 hours (no kidding!).

Cavan was occupied with play-doh, a timely Christmas present from Aunt Yo, Uncle Bernard and Bernice.

We didn't make any prior airport transfer arrangements so we thought we'd get a cab. Someone came along and offered to take us to Wan Tai where we stayed at NT$1,200 (S$57). We agreed. On hindsight, we were so trusting! Lesson: Better make arrangements next time with a reliable provider.

The travelling time between C.K.S Airport to Songshan area was around 40-45 min.The driver couldn't find the hotel initially. Not surprising why cos when we got there, we found that it was not a stand-alone building but was part of a building, tucked in next to a convenience store.

Nevertheless, the service was good and the room was very spacious with clean toilets.
After check-in, we quickly went down to grab a bite. The good thing about the hotel was its location. Very near eateries, next to a 24-hour convenience store, in front of Wufenpu (a wholesale clothes and accessories market), 10 min walk to Raohe Night Market and 10-min walk to nearest metro station.

Ordered stewed meat rice for Clem and Cavan. Got gong wan soup (something like fishball but more chewy and delicous) and yi-mian for myself.

Cavan was taking a long time to feed and Verity was hungry by then. The young female boss asked if I brought Verity's milk out. Well, yes, the milk's in me. I forgot to bring my feeding shawl out. The boss was full of sympathy for Verity. (We later noticed that Taiwanese loved babies and Verity attracted all sorts of attention.)

We decided to pack Cavan's half eaten dinner and feed him at the hotel. After feeding the 2 kiddos, we explored Wufenpu at around 9.30pm, which was usually open till quite late.

We retired at around 11pm. The 4 of us squeezing (horizontally) into a queen-sized bed. Surprisingly, we still managed to get a good sleep. I guess we weren't the sort to toss and turn in our sleep. Except for Verity, whom I had to adjust her position throughout the night. Oh well, had to feed her at night anyway.

24 December 2007

Rainy (15 Deg C)

We made plans to go indoors when there was rain and venture out for occasional rain or fair weather. Today was expected to be rainy so we decided to go the Children's Museum of Taipei.
Buffet breakfast by the hotel consisted of rice, porridge and condiments. Our kind of food so we ignored the toast and others.

Had to find our way to the Metro station in the rainy weather. For the 1st few days, we travelled to Yong Chun station. Later we found that Houshanpi station was even nearer.

Cavan was put on the stroller with a rain shield. Verity was wrapped up in her sweater. Thanks to Evan's baby carrier, Verity was happy to snuggle against our body. She was so happy, she could look around as she wished and slept as she wished. We were also hands-free and that left us plenty of hands for shopping and eating. Happy baby, happy parents.

Only the Taiwanese weren't used to the idea. Is that how we carry babies in Singapore? Would Verity's crotch area be uncomfortable? Would her legs be deformed? Suddenly I felt like a bad parent. But that was how angmohs carry their kids, what. At most, we carry her when she sleeps lor.

We got down at the next station, City Hall station. We grabbed a bite cos it was Verity's feeding time. We tried to coordinate our meal times. Had zhajiangmian, beef noodles, egg tofu soup and steamed meat dumplings.

Walked around 10 mins and looked for Eslite, a 7-storey high bookstore. Children's Museum of Taipei was housed there. I was so impressed by Eslite! So many interesting books, mags, stationery and gifts! The children's section was even more elaborate, with painting lessons and craft sessions as well.

Paid NT$300 for Cavan and NT$200 each for us to get into the Children's Museum of Taipei. It wasn't really a museum, more of a theme land for kids to learn about science, geography, life skills through their hands.

Cavan enjoyed it thoroughly. There were so many things to explore and play!
We had dinner at the swanky foodcourt while Cavan napped. Clem and I shared this huge bowl of beef hotpot for NT$100.
I also indulged in Black as Chocolate's Dark Chocolate ice cream. It was very bittersweet but absolutely yummscious. The ice cream came in a gift box so pretty and cleverly designed. Before the ice cream was eaten, it was blackout. After we finished it, the bottom of the box wrote "Lights on". So funny!

It was Christmas Eve and there were performances at the Children's Dept by a church group so we stayed on to watch. They were distributing sweets and cookies to the shoppers to publicise the performance.

At the same time, took a few pics with the Christmas light up.

Made a final dash back to the hotel for Verity's next feed and packed dinner for Cavan. Couldn't believe we spent the whole day at Eslite! Pray that tomorrow's weather would be great!

Good night!

Reflections of a 1st-time Page Boy

Ah Gu Collin asked mummy months ago whether I could be the page boy for his wedding. Before mummy could answer, ah ma and ah gong screamed "Yes!"

My, my. The whole family was so busy on 16 Dec. Ah ma followed Ah Gu Collin playing the traditional role of an aunt to bring the suckling pig and what-nots to the bride's house in the wee hours. Ah Gu Stanley chauffeured the ah yis. Daddy and mummy were emcees for the dinner. Almost the whole family was mobilised! Only Verity had the luxury of sleeping, drinking milk and being entertained in the hustle and bustle. Not fair!

Everything went pretty well and I was happily throwing the rose petals in the floor when suddenly I heard "Pop! Pop!" I panicked. Was there a terrorist attack? No, there were the aunties popping the party poppers! I hate loud noises and began crying at the top of my voice! Grandaunt Judy panicked cos I stopped walking and thus the wedding couple could not carry on. Daddy and Mummy, on stage, were wondering why there was a delay mid-way.

Grandaunt cleverly distracted me by popping M&M's into my mouth while goading me to walk on. I managed to multi-task: crying while eating M&M's while walking while throwing rose petals on the floor. Daddy and Mummy were the most amused when they saw this scene but had to act unaffected and carry on the emceeing. I'm sure Ah Gu Collin and his bride were NOT amused.

Would I want to play this role again? I don't mind. Throwing things on the floor was fun and I don't get to do it often without being scolded. And it was great to be accompanied by a pretty gal. Just don't pop anything loud ok?

"It's so happening out there! I can only lie here and watch. Hmph!"

Mummy, can you get me a nicer suit next time? I look like a waiter here!

A last minute rehearsal with June Ah Yi guiding Jie Jie Melody and I

The dinner was taking too long to start! Daddy saved the day by feeding us cakes.

Grandaunt Judy and Grandunc Eric watched over Verity while Daddy and Mummy were on stage.

I'm stoning already

Getting ready for the act

Boy am I famished! Feasting on sharkfins soup over my rice

The yam seng was too loud!

After a night's work

Preparing for Family Trip to Taipei

We're going to Taipei, dragging along the brood and all. Well, if it's meant to be a vacation, why are we bringing along Verity? Cavan is no problem - tried and tested - fuss-free both as a travelling baby and toddler. Now, to bring 2 kids... we're really asking for it.

The reasons are simple: 1st, I'm still breastfeeding her. It sounds like less hassle to bring her along to offload the milk than to pump and pump before and during the trip. If I have to pump and store milk during the trip, then what vacation am I having? Direct feeding is easier.

2nd, her doting father decided that she should come along as well. She's now our family and if Cavan is coming on a trip with us, she should be in the family trip as well. Right. Like she's going to be permanently emotionally scarred for being left out of the family trip.

So the decision was made. We're all going during the expensive Christmas to New Year period. Clem is currently studying at Command and Staff College and he can't take leave till next year. This is the only window for a trip. At the same time, I've been so busy since I returned from maternity leave. Felt like I've done 2 months' worth of work in that one month. And I needed a break desperately. So we're paying premium to getaway.

Everything was done last minute (yea, I sort of like this kind of thrill). We're not going on a tour cos if I have to breastfeed every now and then, the programme's up by the time I finish feeding. Booked Jetstar budget flights and found that they were more expensive than normal flight. Will lose $$ if cancel. Have not been successful in getting hotels cos mostly were fully booked. Fortunately, managed to get one with much sourcing and prayers. We're not very savvy bookers and tend to do everything last minute, so always ended up spending more than needed.

Oh, and one more thing. Verity doesn't have a passport yet and Cavan needs to update his passport photo.

Other than that, we just need to pack for the trip and plan the itinerary. This is going to be twice the prep we did for last year's Korea trip. Maybe 3 times more.

All said, we're really looking forward to the adventure!

Maid in Singapore

We have sucuumbed to the inevitable - getting a domestic helper.

But no, she's not going to stay with us. I'm engaging her to help my parents.

Given my mom's medical condition, I worry about taxing her too much with the care of our 2 young children once I return to work. My mom has never mentioned that she needed help. On the contrary, she insisted that she could cope. My dad is around to help out, but he can't handle babies and he's been complaining of numbness in his face, and a strained knee. Moreover, mom has hospital appointments twice a week so it would be great to have a helper at home. This would ease the load off my parents a lot.

Looking through the bio-data, I still can't imagine having the stranger enter our lives. I seriously don't know what to look out for. Filipina, Indonesian? Single, married, with kids? We can interview the maid over the phone but, what am I going to ask?

I'm absolutely clueless.

God, I pray for wisdom in getting a good helper. Please guide us in our choice and help us to adapt to this change in our lives. I pray that we will get along with the new helper and my parents will be happy with the selection. Amen.

Resuming Sunday

After a month-long hiatus, we're back to a fully-packed Sunday!

Cavan was so glad to be back at Children's Church where his daddy teaches, joining the big kor-kors and jie-jies. Plus playing with daddy & mummy's friends, especially Uncle Victor & Auntie Yvonne!

After CC and church service, we, as usual, lunched with Kym, TC and their 2 bubbies at our fav Sunday lunch haunt - Crystal Cafe for porridge buffet!

This is our fav place cos the place is not too crowded; Our 2 toddlers have the space to move around; We don't feel pressured to eat quickly and give up our table; The toddlers eat for free! Considering the adult portion that Cavan eats, it is soooo worth it!

We usually spent almost the whole of our Sunday afternoons here if we come here for lunch and joked that we can settle lunch and dinner here (since it closes at 10pm). The waiters and waitresses probably recognised us, since we were the longest staying customers! The last time we came, Kym and I were heavily pregnant and we stayed as long! This time, we were still unstoppable despite having our newborns. Worse-still, the 2 todds were "unsupervised" since we were busy tending to the babies!

Baby Verity had been sleeping throughout. From her feed at 8.45am till 2pm, she was soundly asleep amid the loud noises and music in church! I was desperate for her to wake up so I could feed her (I was "bursting") but nothing can rouse her. Finally managed to feed her before our lunch so I could eat in peace. Alas, after that she refused to sleep so Clem had to hold her and have his lunch interrupted.

At 4+, we parted our ways and I wanted to shop at Vivocity. Desperately tried to make Cavan nap as he was up almost the whole day (napping only for 30 min during service) and having only slept 7.5 hours the night before.

I was so happy I managed to do some shopping. Have been buying stuff for the kids. Finally something for myself! Oops we forgot the time - it was close to 8pm - and we headed to my in-laws' for dinner.

It was great as there's always someone tending to the baby. Cavan had his uncles to entertain him. My hands were free while I had dinner! It's always great to be with family.

I was recharged. Now, to face another week ahead!

Go, Fly a Kite

It was one of those Saturday morning that we felt like going to West Coast Park for breakfast and activities. That day, we felt like flying a kite instead of playing sand. The weather was sunny and windy. Before long our kite took flight in the vast sky.

Run, Daddy, run!

Guess there's no point for me to run. Think I'll just wait...

Handover

Our $2- kite soaring proudly in the sky. Sadly the string was not long enough and loosen itself out of the reel. Freedom, the kite found.

Cavan and his Mah-mah

Cavan simply adores his Mah-mah. And rightfully, he should.

His Mah-mah had fighted much for her life so she could care for him.

When I was pregnant with Cavan at 3 months, we were informed that my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer (Stage 2-3). We were devastated. I cried for weeks and prayed like never before. Sometimes, words just failed me and I could only cried out to God.

Mom underwent chemo, radiotherapy and finally a surgery to remove her right breast in Nov 2004. After that, she went on a regular bim0nthly checks and was given clearance.

She took care of Cavan after his 1st month. Of course, her physical strength waned. But her mental and emotional strength never waivered. She lost the ability to use her right arm as it was not as strong as before. She still persisted on carrying Cavan, her marketing stuff, his stroller and showed us she could. My dad gave up his job so they could take care of Cavan together.

On Cavan's 1st birthday, my mom was diagnosed with liver cancer (Stage 4). In my heart, I asked why. But my mom never did. There is a time when everyone has to go, she believed. Hence she went about in her life as normal. I don't know whether she ever questioned why such a thing happened to her. She's been such a strong person.

Her daily joy and happiness is very much built upon Cavan. His little antics made her smile. He simply loves to snuggle up to her, teases her with his mischevious pranks and makes funny faces at her when chided.

I hope he will know what his Mah-mah had done for him despite her illness and will honour her.

Cavan's fav grandaunt Judy sent us off at the airport with her family. Gave Cavan a red packet as this was his 1st trip by air. She was going to miss him so much!